What are some of the discoveries I have made? I found I needed people because I needed the love they could give me.
I found that love was something I did.
I found that the way I showed people my need and love for them was to tell how it was with me in my deepest heart.
I came to feel that was the most loving thing I could do for anyone -- tell them how it was with me and share my imperfections with them.
When I did this, most people came back at me with what was deep within them.
This was love coming to me.
And the more I had coming to me, the more I had to give away.
I ain't much, baby -- but I'm all I've got.
From his experience comes I Ain't Much, Baby -- But I'm All I've Got.
Lair originally wrote this book for his students, but when it gained widespread popularity he rewrote it for publication.
It is a book meant to help people share in the success of finding themselves.
From the Paperback edition.