It's completely unrealistic to expect to wake up one morning and suddenly be full of confidence, attracting abundance at every turn.
However, it's entirely within the realms of possibility to slowly build up your self-esteem over time, helping to create a cast-iron belief system that belongs to you, and you only.
Do you believe that you will have high self-esteem when: - you make a lot of money? - you achieve a high position in your work? - you have an expensive car o.