The awfulizer: learning to overcome the shame game - Kristin Maher

In The Awfulizer: Learning to Overcome the Shame Game, author Kristin Maher gives shame a name and face, showing just how real and big it can be for children; how it keeps them feeling isolated and alone, and makes them question their self-worth.

I feel like there's a monster in my head.

And all he does is say awful things to me.

He tells me all the things I am doing wrong and how I am wrong, and it makes me sad and scared.

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